(With humble apologies in advance to all who will object.) And on that good note, here are some of my favourite Kama Sutra sex tricks to add enormous pleasure to our sex lives. Especially because a heck of a lot of guys have no clue that the clitoris exists, let alone that it is the key to women's orgasms. So I admit I'm on something of a personal crusade. (Solo RW yawn.) The more I write about how to improve our sexual awareness, and the more people who email me with their heart-rending problems and their heartfelt thanks for opening their eyes, the more I realise how desperate many South Africans are for straightforward, tell-it-like-it-is sex articles. Some fathers even encourage their sons to watch porn with them as a misguided introduction to women and sex.īut educate our children about how men's and women's bodies respond to sexual stimuli? Collective South African gasp.
They may have unfettered access to pornography on the Internet. Somewhat ironically, they have access to locally-shot graphic content sent to their cellphones, probably made by their peers at school. Yet the contemptuous scorn heaped on school-based sex education before that watershed moment remains intact.
It's been 17 years since democracy was ushered in with huge fanfare. In sex, we are largely still expected to operate in the dark.
